"He's being charged with domestic violence and damage to property because he destroyed my house," Trapani said. "He started just bashing holes in the walls and the columns."

The female in question is Stephaine Trapani, a 30 year old 'spokesmodel' for a fightwear company. 

The spark that light Monson's short fuse was Trapani thowing away his cell phone after she discovered he had other romantic rendezvous.

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